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My Thoughts on What It Was Like to Write My TAIL: The Emotional Process
Photo by Jenny Combs I started writing in March 2018, two months after Tovi died, and it has taken me over seven years to be done. I...

Liz Weiner
Apr 72 min read
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Intro to Tovi's "Yet-To-Be-Finished" Tail
"Tovi" Photo by Jenny Combs My tail is 48 double spaced pages at last count. And I'm still writing. Writing about Tovi is the one thing...

Liz Weiner
Apr 42 min read
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The Other Side of Rehoming a Pet: The Human's TAIL
Photo courtesy of The Senior Dog Sanctuary of Maryland It is heartbreaking to hear stories of pets losing their homes and families and...

Liz Weiner
Mar 285 min read
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How To Show Up For Someone’s Grief: What to say (and not).
Photo by Author "Pet Bereavement Box" When I am in the presence of a person grieving the loss of their beloved pet, I suddenly forget...

Liz Weiner
Mar 97 min read
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On Pet Loss: Is It a Betrayal To Stop Crying?
Photo by author After my dog died, I cried all of the time. I didn't just cry; I wore my tears as a badge of honor. I took pride in the...

Liz Weiner
Feb 223 min read
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This Isn’t What I Signed Up For: Navigating Emotional and Behavioral Challenges In Pet Relationships
Photo by Erin Scott When Sharla set out to get a dog, she assumed he would lie beside her on the couch, run along the beach, sit...

Liz Weiner
Feb 175 min read
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On Pet Loss: How Will I Know If I Am Ready To Adopt (Or Not) After Loss - Know Your Intentions.
People often ask my advice on when to bring a new pet into their lives after losing their beloved companion. A little housekeeping before...

Liz Weiner
Feb 311 min read
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Guilt & Regret In Pet Loss - Reconciling With Yourself
Photo by Erin Scott of Believe in Dog Podcast When it comes to pet loss, pet parents often have to make hard decisions on behalf of their...

Liz Weiner
Jan 283 min read
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Grounding Yourself and Bringing Mindfulness to Medical Decisions
After working on this site for years, it recently occurred to me that the best place to start processing loss is before your pet dies....

Liz Weiner
Nov 30, 20243 min read
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Custom Memorial Bracelets To Keep Your Pet's Memory Close
Handmade bracelets to keep your pet's memory close. Bracelets are $5 which includes shipping (and that's pretty much JUST the cost of...

Liz Weiner
Oct 22, 20241 min read
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Canine Love on the Rebound
Millie - photo by Elizabeth Weiner It started as the typical rebound relationship. I had been there before, so I should have recognized...

Liz Weiner
Jan 28, 20244 min read
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I Felt More Relief Than Sadness When My Dog Died - We Had a Complicated Relationship
Photo by Author Millie died one year ago, and I am only now in a place to write about her. I intended to do so for some time but was too...

Liz Weiner
Dec 5, 20235 min read
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Tick-Tok
One moment you fit In the palm of my hand. Then you’re peeing on the rug For the hundredth time. There you go chewing up my shoes There...

Liz Weiner
Nov 30, 20231 min read
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Writing About my Dead Dog is Too Painful — Even So, I Keep Trying.
Processing pet loss through writing and the precautions we should take “Tovi,” Photo by Jenni Combs When I sit down to write about Tovi,...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20236 min read
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Becoming Perfect Again — The Gift of a Hospice Dog
“…The greatest gift he gave me: To love so much that the mess around me didn’t matter.” Photo by author I didn’t expect to fall in love;...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20238 min read
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My 84-Day Dog
I fell in love with a dying dog Photo by author Today is the first anniversary of Dusty’s death. I adopted him at age 14, and he was my...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20233 min read
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Why my Keurig Reminds me of the Dog I’ll Never Forget
I first tried it in the Pet ER Photo by EKATERINA BOLOVTSOVA from Pexels I had a routine that anchored me during the extended time Tovi...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20232 min read
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Making Sense of Pet Loss
Embracing and understanding your messy, beautiful grief. Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash On January 27, 2018, my heart dog died. A...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20236 min read
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Mourning The Dog I Never Had
I regret not adopting you Photo by Honest Paws on Unsplash My brother got a puppy yesterday, to whom I am a proud auntie. If I am being...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20238 min read
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The Hallmark Dog Syndrome: It's Like the Human Equivalent of Body Shaming
I’ve always been obsessed with Hallmark movies: Their idyllic towns, beautiful actors, perfect families, and predictable happy endings...

Liz Weiner
Jul 27, 20213 min read
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