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Rehoming Pets: Beware of the Comments. We Need To Stop Bullying People Away From Seeking Help.
Photo by Natasha Cara Animal rescue is exhausting, to put it mildly. We encounter situations that cause us to question humanity, and it...

Liz Weiner
6 days ago9 min read


What Does “No-Kill” Shelter Really Mean?It’s not as simple as you might think.
"Ethel" Photo taken by a "high-kill" shelter in a plea for a rescue to pull her Contrary to popular belief, there is no idyllic oasis on...

Liz Weiner
Sep 185 min read


When You Regret Adopting Your Dog: Don't Worry, It Gets Better.
The Facebook post that led me to Fred (he sounds like an angel, right)? You might be surprised to know there is a phenomenon known as the...

Liz Weiner
Sep 167 min read


Coping With Traumatic Endings
So many “what-ifs.” So many “I shouldn’t haves.” So many wishes for do-overs. "Charter" Photo by Scarlett Blackiston If I had a...

Liz Weiner
Jul 319 min read


My Thoughts on What It Was Like to Write My TAIL: The Emotional Process
Photo by Jenny Combs I started writing in March 2018, two months after Tovi died, and it has taken me over seven years to be done. I...

Liz Weiner
Apr 73 min read


The Other Side of Rehoming a Pet: The Human's TAIL
Photo courtesy of The Senior Dog Sanctuary of Maryland It is heartbreaking to hear stories of pets losing their homes and families and...

Liz Weiner
Mar 286 min read


How To Show Up For Someone’s Grief: What to say (and not).
Photo by Author "Pet Bereavement Box" When I am in the presence of a person grieving the loss of their beloved pet, I suddenly forget...

Liz Weiner
Mar 98 min read


On Pet Loss: Is It a Betrayal To Stop Crying?
Photo by author After my dog died, I cried all of the time. I didn't just cry; I wore my tears as a badge of honor. I took pride in the...

Liz Weiner
Feb 224 min read


This Isn’t What I Signed Up For: Navigating Emotional and Behavioral Challenges In Pet Relationships
Photo by Erin Scott When Sharla set out to get a dog, she assumed he would lie beside her on the couch, run along the beach, sit...

Liz Weiner
Feb 176 min read


On Pet Loss: How Will I Know If I Am Ready To Adopt (Or Not) After Loss - Know Your Intentions.
People often ask my advice on when to bring a new pet into their lives after losing their beloved companion. A little housekeeping before...

Liz Weiner
Feb 38 min read


Guilt & Regret In Pet Loss: Try to Make Peace With What Happened. Or At Least Stop Beating Yourself Up.
Photo by Erin Scott of Believe in Dog Podcast When it comes to pet loss, pet parents often have to make hard decisions on behalf of their...

Liz Weiner
Jan 285 min read


Grounding Yourself and Bringing Mindfulness to Medical Decisions
After working on this site for years, it recently occurred to me that the best place to start processing loss is before your pet dies....

Liz Weiner
Nov 30, 20243 min read


Custom Memorial Bracelets To Keep Your Pet's Memory Close
As a lifelong crafter looking for a new art project, and I had a vision that combined my two passions: Art & Pet Loss I began making pet...

Liz Weiner
Oct 22, 20241 min read


Canine Love on the Rebound
Millie - photo by Elizabeth Weiner It started as the typical rebound relationship. I had been there before, so I should have recognized...

Liz Weiner
Jan 28, 20245 min read


I Felt More Relief Than Sadness When My Dog Died - We Had a Complicated Relationship
Photo by Author Millie died one year ago, and I am only now in a place to write about her. I intended to do so for some time but was too...

Liz Weiner
Dec 5, 20236 min read


Tick-Tok
One moment you fit In the palm of my hand. Then you’re peeing on the rug For the hundredth time. There you go chewing up my shoes There...

Liz Weiner
Nov 30, 20231 min read


Writing About my Dead Dog is Too Painful — Even So, I Keep Trying.
Processing pet loss through writing and the precautions we should take “Tovi,” Photo by Jenni Combs When I sit down to write about Tovi,...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20237 min read


Becoming Perfect Again — The Gift of a Hospice Dog
“…The greatest gift he gave me: To love so much that the mess around me didn’t matter.” Photo by author I didn’t expect to fall in love;...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20238 min read


My 84-Day Dog
I fell in love with a dying dog Photo by author Today is the first anniversary of Dusty’s death. I adopted him at age 14, and he was my...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20233 min read


Why my Keurig Reminds me of the Dog I’ll Never Forget
I first tried it in the Pet ER Photo by EKATERINA BOLOVTSOVA from Pexels I had a routine that anchored me during the extended time Tovi...

Liz Weiner
Nov 27, 20232 min read
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