
Pet . Therapy. Notes...
behavioral euthanasia:
a stigmatized loss.

So, what exactly is Behavioral Euthanasia?
According to Kate LaSala, professional dog trainer and behavior consultant, “Behavioral euthanasia is the humane ending of an animal’s life because the animal is suffering from severe behavioral issues, including aggression, fears, or anxiety. It is a difficult decision for any guardian to make, but it is sometimes the best option for both the animal and the family. It is not a decision made out of convenience, and it doesn’t necessarily mean the animal has mauled someone, or police or medical providers have been involved. Opting to euthanize an animal that has seriously injured or killed a person or animal seems reasonable to many people, but often behavioral euthanasia is done before there is serious harm. The decision about behavioral euthanasia is about risk assessment and quality of life, for both the animal and the humans.”
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As you will read in the resources below, there are many factors to consider when exploring behavioral euthanasia, from the severity of risk, the environment the pet is living in, and one's own ability (mentally, emotionally, physically, financially) to put in the work needed to safely handle the pet - this is not meant to be a put down, or judgy - we all have a right to honor our limitations.
While there are certain situations where an animal may be able to be safely placed in an environment better suited to meet their needs by minimizing triggers (other pets, kids, men, loud noises, etc), finding that unicorn home is not always easy, and hard decisions have to be made.
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I'll be the first one to admit that I tend to tiptoe around behavioral euthanasia conversations. I don't do well in the uncomfortable zone. But, the longer I am in the rescue world, the more apparent it has become to me that this cannot be a taboo topic. I am by no stretch of the imagination an expert on behavioral euthanasia, which is why I've left the advice to the professionals listed below. What I can tell you is that facing behavioral euthanasia does not mean you failed as a pet owner, or that you do not love your pet. It is a heartbreaking decision and a valid loss.
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If you are considering behavioral euthanasia, it is important to assess whether there is a home better suited to your pet, or if the safety risk the pet presents is too significant. In the resources below, you will find links to professionals who provide behavioral euthanasia/re-homing consultations, as well as support groups.
**If you believe your pet may safely thrive in an environment different from the one you can offer, please refer to rehoming resources and consult with a professional who can help you properly assess your specific circumstances.
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articles.
Discussing Behavioral Euthanasia
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When Should an Aggressive Dog Be Euthanized?
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Euthanizing an Aggressive Dog and Dealing with the Guilt: How to Move Forward
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When Is It Time To Put Down a Dog Who Is Aggressive to People?
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When to Consider Behavioral Euthanasia
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audio.
A Conversation with Canine Behavior Consultant Kate LaSala on Behavioral Euthanasia
The Pet Loss Companion
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Behavioral Euthanasia With Dr. Chris Pachel
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When Love Means Letting Go: A Look At Behavioral Euthansia With Trish McMillan and Sue Alexander
The Bitey End of the Dog
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Kate LaSala, CTC, CBCC-KA, PCBC-A, CSAT, FFCP-E
Kate is a professional dog trainer and certified behavior consultant specializing in fear and aggression. She is also a certified pet loss grief companion and an end-of-life companion animal doula. Kate has helped clients through pet loss, whether from natural aging, unexpected medical issues, accidents, or behavioral euthanasia. In additon to grief support, she offers consultations to discuss your personal circumstances and makes recommendations for both re-homing and behavioral euthanasia.
Kate's behavioral euthanasia specific link can be found here, where she explains what it is in more detail and provides additional resources.
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Laura Cassiday - Certified Cat Behavior Consultant
In addition to training, Laura provides behavioral euthanasia consultations. Her non-judgmental approach can help you decide what is in the best interest of the cat and your family.
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Losing Lulu
"Grieving behavioral euthanasia together" - Incredible resources and supportive community ​
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Lap of Love
Among other support groups, Lap of Love offers a support group specifically for Behavioral Euthanasia.
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facebook groups.
Losing Lulu
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Behavior Euthanasia - Decisions and Support
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Sometimes Love's Not Enough; Dog Bite & Behavioral Euthanasia Support Group​
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essays by pet parents.
Guilt and Shame—Two Reasons Why No One Talks About Behavioural Euthanasia
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Euthanizing Aggressive Dogs: Sometimes Its the Best Choice
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The Rescue Dog That Couldn't Be Rescued
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visit therapy/support page for individual providers and support groups.